Staying on budget

Staying on Budget Without Losing Your Mind

Let’s be real—wedding budgets can feel like a joke when you start Googling prices. One second, you’re setting a “reasonable” budget, and the next you’re learning that chair covers alone might cost more than your car payment.

But here’s the good news: you can absolutely have a beautiful, meaningful wedding without going broke. It just takes a little creativity, a lot of honesty, and the occasional “no, we don’t need that.”

Whether your budget is tight or just needs to stay on track, here are a few tips to help keep things in check (without losing the fun):

Budget Tips That Actually Work:

• Get really clear about your priorities.
  Ask yourselves: What do we care about most? Maybe it’s great food, amazing photos, or dancing all night. Spend there—and cut back on the stuff you couldn’t care less about.

• Track every penny.
  Not just the big stuff. The Etsy downloads, stamps, makeup trial, extra candles—those little things add up fast. Keep a spreadsheet, use an app, or whatever works for you—just keep track.

• Don't be afraid to say no.
  No to pressure, no to traditions you don’t care about, no to upgrades you didn’t even ask for. It’s your wedding, not a group project.

• DIY some stuff.
  Not everything—but a few handmade details (like signage, favors, or playlists) can save money and add personality.

• Shop secondhand.
  Facebook Marketplace, Buy Nothing groups, wedding resale sites—they’re gold mines for decor, dresses, and even signage.

At the end of the day, your wedding doesn’t need to be a financial stress-fest. It should feel like a celebration—not a bill you’ll be paying off for the next five years.

So stay grounded, make choices that feel good to you, and remember: the magic is in the moments, not the money.

- Shannon